Tantra is all about taking things slowly.It is about savoring every nuance of each
sensual delight until sexual energy reaches a crescendo and waves begin to
crash over and over in sheer ecstasy. There are many times that we need to satisfy
our erotic desire for sexual intimacy with more immediate restrictions.Sexual energy can begin to move through the
body very quickly by engaging in one of several activities before involving
the genitals.You may choose a
physical interaction like rolling around on a bed, playfully engaging each
other playfully.Teasing kisses and
talking may stir things up a bit.A
massage relaxes the body and mind, putting it in a more receptive mode.Anyone familiar with meditation, and paying
attention to breathing, is aware of the quieting, and yet energy-moving effects.
Using a warming up activity will provide you with a less mechanical
experience.You are more likely to have
a very satisfying orgasm too!
Just because you do not a lot of time does not mean a
quickie has to be going from no physical contact directly to sexual
activity.Hit the pause button and
take a few minutes to start the engine and let it warm up.You will get more mileage!
